What to Do When Your Child “Can’t Turn Their Brain Off” at Night

What to Do When Your Child “Can’t Turn Their Brain Off” at Night

When a child says, “My brain won’t stop,” they aren’t being difficult — they’re being honest.

Their mind is still processing the day.

Helpful Tools

Name it
“You had a big-thinking day. Your brain is still sorting things out.”

Externalize the thoughts
Invite them to imagine placing worries or ideas into a container, cloud, or story character that can hold them overnight.

Offer a gentle anchor
A familiar voice telling a familiar story gives the brain something safe to land on.

Silence can feel loud to imaginative kids. A gentle sound can be calming.